By: Mike Coleman
Moving abroad is nothing short of life-changing. It’s a thrilling dip into the unknown, full of the prospect of adventure—and perhaps some bumps along the way. It’s a journey that is just as daunting as it may be rewarding, from finding your favorite coffee shop in town to fiddling your way through using the washing machine in a new language.
Make Your Space Feel Like Your Space
Let’s be honest—living in an impersonal space won’t go a long way toward making you feel at home. So, make it yours! Setting up a haven where you can retreat and recharge will help you transition to a new life much more quickly than forgoing decor and personal touches. Hang up some photos, bring out a comfortable throw blanket, or add little knick-knacks that make you smile. These personal touches will create a familiar bubble in an unfamiliar world, making it easier to feel grounded after a long day.
Embrace Local Culture—One Small Step At A Time
Instead of keeping a tight hold on your old routines, dip your toes into the local culture—even just a tiny bit—as soon as you arrive. Explore the neighborhood, pick up a few local phrases (practice makes perfect!), and maybe try celebrating some of the local holidays, or at least learning about them and how you can be respectful during them. These small gestures will help you build bridges with the people around you. You’re saying, “I’m here, I’m curious, and I’m open to being part of this community.”
Build Your Own Little Community
Moving abroad can be lonely, so finding “your people” is essential. You might consider joining local clubs, language exchanges, or even expat groups—there are tons of ways to connect. And you will find that you can get tips from other expats’ experiences that will help smooth out some of those rough patches. Many of them have been exactly where you are, so you can bond over shared experiences and crazy moments. Before you know it, you’ve got a little family away from home!
Make Exploring Part Of Your Routine
It’s easy to slip into a routine—or even shrink away if you’re frustrated and lonely—but don’t let your adventurous spirit fade! Try to visit somewhere new whenever you can, or even on a regular schedule (like each weekend!). It could be a neighborhood café, a hidden bookstore, or a park you haven’t seen yet. Take advantage of local transit or day trips to explore spots further away from your new home. It’ll give you a deeper appreciation of the country and keep things exciting. Nothing says “home” like discovering favorite spots that feel like they’re just for you.
Prioritize Your Mental Well-Being
Living abroad can sometimes feel like an emotional rollercoaster, and self-care is your stabilizer. A daily routine that includes self-care can go a long way. Whether it’s a favorite exercise, journaling, meditation, or even just a walk in a park, these moments help you stay centered. A balanced mindset can help you savor the amazing parts of living abroad, even if the journey occasionally feels overwhelming.
Moving abroad isn’t just a trip—it’s a whole new chapter. Every experience, every friend, and every little victory brings you closer to feeling at home. If you’d like to connect with other travelers, check out the Frayed Passport community and start the conversation!
Want to make a change? Read our guides and tips for moving abroad! More into country-hopping? Check out our tips for digital nomads!
About the Author
Mike is a freelance writer who researches and shares actionable advice around travel, finance, and personal growth. Read his other articles on Frayed Passport here.
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