By: Mike Coleman
Let’s talk about that moment when you’ve just buckled into your seat, the plane starts taxiing down the runway, and you suddenly remember you left your charger / hair straightener / child’s favorite stuffed animal back in the hotel room.
Don’t panic. You’re not the first and won’t be the last.
Here’s exactly what happens when you forget something in a hotel and how to get it back before it disappears into the mysterious hotel Lost & Found vortex forever.
What Happens When You Leave Something Behind
Once you check out, housekeeping usually heads in quickly to clean and prep the room. If they find anything, like phones, jewelry, clothes, electronics, or snacks, they’re supposed to turn it in to the front desk or management.
From there, it goes into the hotel’s Lost & Found system. Bigger chains usually have a tracking process and designated storage. Some even keep items cataloged by date, room number, and type of item. It’s more of a “whoever’s working remembers where we put it” situation for smaller properties.
If you wait too long, your stuff might get tossed, donated, or claimed by someone else. So timing matters.
Step 1: Call the Hotel Immediately
As soon as you realize you left something behind, call the hotel directly. Not the general 800 number and not the app. You want to speak to someone at the front desk of the specific property where you stayed.
Keep it simple. Tell them your name, the dates of your stay, and the room number if you remember it. Then, describe what you left behind. Be as specific as possible, especially with electronics or jewelry. “Black phone charger” might not narrow it down, but “black iPhone charger with a frayed cord and a green Velcro strap” will help the staff find your item more quickly.
If you get a manager or front desk employee who sounds helpful and says they’ll check with housekeeping, ask when you should follow up. A little polite urgency goes a long way.
Step 2: Follow Up, and Don’t Wait Long
If the hotel staff says they’ll call you back and don’t? Follow up. Call again that evening. Then again the next day if needed.
Most hotels have staff turnover across shifts. Your request could fall through the cracks if you call once and never follow up. And while yes, hotels should be better about this…that’s just not the world we live in. Persistence matters.
Step 3: Ask About Shipping
If they do have your item, ask how they usually handle returns. Some hotels will cover the shipping. Most will ask for a prepaid label or offer to send it and charge your card.
If you need it fast (like forgotten laptop chargers and passports), ask about overnight shipping. Be prepared to pay for it. FedEx, UPS, and even local courier services can help speed things up, but it’s not free.
You can also offer to email them a prepaid label from a service like Pirate Ship, Shippo, or the regular UPS / FedEx websites. It makes things easier for them and faster for you.
Step 4: If They Say It’s Not There, Ask Again
If the hotel tells you they didn’t find anything, that doesn’t always mean your item’s gone forever. It could mean housekeeping missed it, someone picked it up but didn’t turn it in, or it’s sitting in Lost & Found, but no one recognized your description.
Call again. Ask if they’ve checked with the head of housekeeping. See if someone can recheck the room, especially if it hasn’t been cleaned or re-booked yet. You might even ask for the general manager if you get the runaround.
Still nothing? Leave your contact info. Ask them to call you if it turns up. Then, check in once or twice over the next few days.
Step 5: Keep Expectations Realistic
Some items get returned within hours. Others you’ll never see again. Not because people are thieves but because hotels aren’t great at managing forgotten stuff. If you left something valuable, it’s worth pushing a little harder.
For high-value items like laptops, tablets, or designer anything, report it missing to hotel security and file a report. Most hotels will at least document the incident, which helps if you want to file an insurance claim later.
What to Know for Next Time
You know what they say about hindsight. But if you’re reading this before your next trip, here’s how to leave less behind:
- Do a sweep before checkout. Open every drawer. Look behind the bathroom door. Check under the bed. Check in the crevices of your bed, like between the mattress and headboard.
- Keep valuables in one spot, like a pouch or organizer that goes straight into your suitcase.
- Use the safe for small stuff like watches, passports, or jewelry. Just don’t forget to open it before you leave! It’s easy to forget the safe when it’s hidden away in the closet or behind a cabinet.
- Make a checklist if you’re prone to forgetting things. Boring but effective.
Losing stuff on the road happens to everyone. But if you act fast, stay polite, and follow up, there’s a solid chance you’ll get your item back without resorting to an all-caps email or a passive-aggressive Yelp review. Happy Travels!
About the Author
Mike is a writer who researches and shares actionable advice around travel lifestyle, finance, and personal growth. He loves any trip where he can explore the great outdoors, and believes everyone should be able to experience travel for personal development and fulfillment. Read his other articles on Frayed Passport here.Featured image by Andrew Neel on Unsplash
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